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3 Reasons Why Getting A Hot Body Won’t Make You Happy

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November 10, 2015 by Cynthia Pasquella

There’s a statement I hear over and over again from clients who walk into my office. It goes like this, “If I could just lose X pounds, everything would be perfect!

”Maybe you’ve heard someone say this too? Maybe you’ve said it?

It’s as if losing weight immediately results in having more confidence, more success, more friends and a golden ticket to begin the rest of our lives!

Unfortunately, that doesn’t happen. Here are three reasons why:

1. Your Body Changed But Your Mind Didn’t.

I’ve known thousands of women who have lost the weight but still struggle with the heavy thoughts and beliefs that contributed to the weight gain in the first place. The fundamental thing that has to shift in order to create permanent change is how you see yourself, aka your self-image.

Chances are at some point in your life you became disconnected from the authentic, beautiful, brilliant self that you truly are and as a result, became unhappy. It just so happens that unhappiness is one of the biggest triggers to weight gain.

In essence, your unhappiness has nothing to do with the weight. The weight is a byproduct of you not being happy.

If you want to permanently change this, it’s necessary to go back to thecorewhereit allstarted.

If you were to realize that you’re part of something infinitely bigger, connected to everyone and everything in a way thatcreatesbeautiful,permanentharmony in any given moment, things would be radically different.

You would have no trouble making healthier choices because you would want to honor the perfection of your divine self at all times.

2. It’s Not About The Destination.

Michael Crighton said, “As a rule, nothing you lack now will make you happy when you get it.” I agree with him completely.

Think about something you really, really wanted and how you felt when you got it. Did it light your fire? Probably. Did it keep it stoked to this day? Probably not. Chances are it was fun for a while but then the flames died down and were quietly extinguished.

The real excitement came in the journey to get that thing. The hard work you put in to be able to afford that dress. The weeks or months you made do with that worn out pair of shoes because you were saving up for new ones.

You see, the thing that ultimately leads us to happiness is mindful challenge.

That’s right.Happiness is an inside job. True happinessliesin theprocessnot the end results.

In fact, studies show that women who eat healthy or workout immediately feel happier even though their bodies haven’t changed at all!

The deep-down, soul-stroking happiness comes when you’re setting goals and reaching them. When you’re connecting with a community of likeminded people who are on the same journey you are. When you feel the strength of your own body increasing workout after workout.

True happiness lies in the journey.

3. Self-Hate Is Not Replaced With Self-Love But With Fear.

The reason we try to lose weight, tone up and look fab is because we have a love/hate relationship with our bodies. We love to hate them.

If I had a nickel for every time someone said to me, “I hate my stomach” or “I hate how my butt sags”, I would be mega wealthy and writing this article from a remote island.

The fact is that we carry around so much hate for our physical form that when we do manage to lose the weight, flatten the tummy and lift our backsides, we kick the door down for fear to come in and curl up on our couch.

This unwanted houseguest will become a dominant factor in your life and you’ll start to make decisions from a place of fear instead of love and happiness.

You won’t toast with a glass of champagne tocelebrate your parent’s 40th wedding anniversary because you’ll be afraid of the extra calories. You’ll cancel dinner with friends because you are afraid you’ll get caught up in the moment and overeat. You’ll shut down simple pleasures, like the intoxicating taste of chocolate, because of the overwhelming fear that you might gain back an ounce.

This fear can completely run and ruin your life.

By starting from a place of truly, madly, deeply loving the authentic self and getting your dream body as aside effect of that love, you’ll hang a “no vacancy” sign on your door and fear will keep on truckin’.

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About Cynthia Pasquella

Cynthia is a clinical nutritionist, spiritual leader, media personality and best-selling author. She is the founder and director of the Institute of Transformational Nutrition – the only nutrition certification program where students receive an in-depth understanding of holistic health through science, psychology and spirituality to help people create permanent change in their health and life. She’s also the co-founder of SoCal Cleanse, an award winning cleansing and detoxification company, and the best-selling author of The Hungry Hottie Cookbook and PINK Method.


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